It is so true.
When a person is in love, they don't see what others see as very obvious.
All the little warning signs that are poking out for the world to see.
And, when you mention a few of those potential areas of concern, the person in love shrugs it off: they see or find no fault.
So, I'm advocating for arranged marriages.
Friends and Family know best.
The person in love is in no mental frame of mind to select a person truly worthy of him/her.
So, I say,
Oh, yes; that's a very good solution....
at least in my opinion.