8.29.2020

The Summer of the Phone Calls

 Morning, afternoons, evenings.

There would be a FaceTime call from Amy's phone.

Only it wasn't Amy at all.

It was our dear sweet six-year-old grandson, Calder.  He would call often.  I loved it.  

He would tell me about a new toy.  Show me what he had just made.  Show me his pajamas.

I looked forward to those calls.

But, alas, school has started and the calls have ended.  He probably will never make those calls on a regular basis ever again; too grown up; but oh, they were delicious when they happened in the Summer of 2020!

8.14.2020

A Sight to Make Me Happy

 


It has been since MARCH that I've seen this sight.

The bus and kids getting on the bus totally made my heart so very happy and joyful.

I know that times are very scary right now, but this is so important.  Getting back to NORMAL!

Letting kids play and enjoy each other.  Having them learn in a classroom setting.  

So, I was thrilled, even though I don't have kids here.  But, I do have grandkids in schools and hope they can go back to just being a normal kid again.

8.12.2020

A Keeper of Secrets

 


Last week, our neighbors told us something personal.  They asked us not to tell anyone.

We won't.  
Today I went to minister to my sisters.  (Comp is out of town.)  

I asked LA how she was doing during Covid.  She told me something in confidence that was so hard to hear about.  I promised her I won't tell anyone.

Next was DC; she had just had a very difficult thing happen in her life moments before; 
my heart hurt for her and those involved.

Earlier in the month, GK, told me about some situations in her family.  
It's not my place to tell anyone about what is happening.

I CAN keep a secret.  And, I WILL.

But, I'm so very sorry for the pain people face in their lives as they carry these burdens with them.




8.10.2020

An Inspiring Letter From a Missionary Grandson...

Week 82

Hello friends and family. It has been a while since hearing from a lot of you. I hope that everyone is healthy and safe. Many have wondered what missionary work entails now since everyone seems to associate it with going from door to door. In Salt Lake City, Utah however that has never really been how things get done. 

The objective of a missionary for the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints has always been to invite others to come into Christ through faith in Jesus Christ and and His atonement, repentance, baptism, receiving the gift of the Holy Ghost, and enduring to the end. 

The key word is "invite". We aren't out to argue with people, or to put down other religions, on the contrary we have great respect for loyal members of other faiths. What we are looking for are those that are also looking for us, although they may not realize it. The process of finding these people varies all over the world and is especially different now as we figure out how to magnify the amazing capabilities of the internet. Either way, it always begins with the belief and faith that God is preparing the hearts of specific individuals and that he will guide us to them as we put forth our best efforts in finding them. These are usually people that are ready to make changes in their lives, who know that they are missing something, who are sad, lonely, or have began to lose hope.

Before this process was usually done as a last resort by talking to people that we happen upon outside or visiting specific people that had been taught previously in the area. Ideally though, the best way to locate someone who was ready to listen was through friends and social connections with members in our ward. 

Now we are still learning and working out kinks but ultimately finding ways to harness the power of the internet as we are connected with people around the entire world. A lot of it is just picking up but we have been focusing and growing Facebook pages and then in turn when the pages are big enough, using our advertising budget that we have been given to run ads that target people in specific areas and that don't already have any online associations with the Church. This has been a fun process of brainstorming creative uplifting ideas for advertisements and videos.

After we find these people, it is pretty standard from there. We get to know them and try to better understand their situations so that we can better relate the gospel to their lives and show them how it can help them. There are 5 basic missionary lessons that go over God's plan for us on earth and after, what the scriptures are and how they help us, who Jesus Christ is, what His Atonement, gospel, and church are. As we teach, the kost important thing that we do is invite them to act. Often times the invitations are to read specific stories in the scriptures that we feel will relate well to them, and to pray and learn to develop a constant dialogue and personal relationship with God.

Currently we teach these through video lessons and occasionally phone calls. While I look forward to the moment that we will be able to meet in people's houses again, it really is all the same process. 

Different parts of the world and different cultures have different levels of success. I'm super thankful to have been called to the Utah Salt Lake City West mission to preach in the Spanish Language, where 50% of the city speaks Spanish and 25% have just barely arrived from different countries all over Latin America. I have learned so much. I have witnessed miracles. 


I hope to hear from all of you guys and that you have a great week!

Elder Hackworth

This letter made a grandma's heart very happy, PLUS there were pictures!  I just love to see him so happy!




OH, my heart can't contain the love I have for this wonderful young man!  

8.08.2020

A Visit from a Grandson....

 ....under strange circumstances, that's for sure.

Oscar called and asked if he could come stay with us along with his two friends, as they went on a grand adventure for their Senior trip.

RAH was very nervous, but agreed they could come if they stayed in one part of the house; we stayed in our end, and we didn't eat meals together.  I didn't particularly like all that, but that's how it had to be in covid times.

So, late one night, here came Oscar, Chris, and Eli.  What great young men they are.  They had all graduated and are planning to go to college in the fall in the field of engineering.  It was BRIEF, but it was so great to have them here with us.  


Oscar, Chris, Eli - future engineers


8.04.2020

And, the Covid Fight Rages ON!





Returning to school right now is such a big issue.  

Many people want the kids back in school; teachers are reluctant, kids are eager to get back.  

It's all very unsettling and intense, for sure.  I don't know how I would feel if I had children.  

What an incredible time in history right now.

8.03.2020

I Just Don't Get It!

Because of COVID 19, I don't do my usual Sunday visits, or visits hardly at all, for that matter.  I miss those visits .

But, yesterday, I went to see Gigi and Jim.  I had asked Gigi previously if she would wear a mask, and she reluctantly agreed, saying, "If it makes you feel safer, I will."

She didn't.

When I walked in, her husband Jim said, "So, you're one of those that believe in masks, eh?"

Both of these wonderful people are in their 80's.  Jim recently had a serious fall while he was walking around the neighborhood.  He is suffering from Dementia, which is getting worse.  Gigi is very stressed about the situation with her husband and other things going on in her life.

BUT, why don't they believe this is real?  Gigi thinks it's a hoax, a conspiracy, not real.  She has some of the most radical religious beliefs I've ever heard.  I told her that we had been asked by the regional authorities to wear masks, but she just shrugs it off, but she is very committed to the Gospel and what we are asked to do.  She went to church yesterday where EVERYONE is required to wear a mask.

I REALLY DO NOT GET IT!

Health care workers over and over say wearing a mask could reduce the contagion so much, but it's like she just doesn't believe it or thinks God will save her.  

For Gigi and Jim, they go about their normal lives.  

I stay home.  I"m not fearful, just cautious.

Well, this too, shall pass.


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