Relationships.....

We met a lady in China who had been in an arranged marriage.

It was a disaster; she was miserable; she hated her husband.

He, in fact, took their two young children and moved to Taiwan.  She didn't see her children for 20 years.

She was a bitter, angry, unhappy woman.

N, a friend from many years ago, chose her husband.  They were unhappy from the I Do's.

She never liked her husband, even though they had 6 children together.

She has only venomous words to say about her husband of 49 years.  Every conversation turns into a rant against her husband.

She is a bitter, angry, unhappy woman.

Arranged marriage?
Chosen Mate?

Let's face it - relationships are often a challenge.

So, how do you find the perfect soul mate that you can trust and will be totally loyal and faithful for all years?

Ah, there's the question for the ages.

And, it's one I wish I could help my dear friend answer for herself right now; she's confused and I don't know the answer for her.

But, I do know this: some people find that "just right person" and even though there may be challenges, they are happy and fulfilled in their marriages.

That is my wish for HD.