10.05.2009

The Habit

I don't know when I started it.

It certainly wasn't when I was living at home because my mother was always after me to "Loni, make your bed!"

It wasn't in college because my roommates; Sharon, Nancy, and Lauralee, claimed the only time I made it was for white glove cleaning check.

It wasn't when we were first married because I had an early morning class; Allen was still in bed, so I couldn't make it (at least, that was my excuse.)

It wasn't when we first had small children because I would drag myself out of bed to feed a crying baby or small toddler. And, I was so busy, that I just never got back to the bedroom during the day to make the bed.

It wasn't when we had a water bed because that thing was impossible to make.

So, it must have been when we remodeled the bedroom, got new carpet, new bed, new bedding.

I've made our bed a lot of mornings since then.

It's just a habit that I have done over many years.

But, the other morning it was going to be one of THOSE DAYS....filled with so many things to get done. So, as I was headed to brush my teeth, early that morning, I said to myself, "I'm not going to make my bed today. No one even comes back here. It doesn't really matter."

I stood at the mirror brushing my teeth and could see the unmade bed through the mirror. And, it just felt odd to leave it unmade. So, I walked back in the bedroom, spent one or two minutes and made the bed.

It's just a habit and it didn't feel right not to do it.

I started faithfully reading my scriptures on a daily basis several years ago.

It's just a habit and it doesn't feel right not to do it.

1 comment:

jeremy said...

I agree about habits. I have a habit not to make the bed, so the other day when I made it, it didn't feel right, so i climbed back in - sleep a bit, then got right up and did some pushups without making the bed. It felt just great and normal after that.

It's so HARD....

 for me to go to church and be filled with the spirit and come home and see something that my kids or grandkids have posted on social media....