I love to visit with Janet...she is so inspiring to me.
A few months ago, she had surgery on a large growth on her neck. She had a ginormous scar with many stitches. So, I've taken a couple of meals, visited her a few times, and called her yesterday.
She is still weak, but recovering.
BUT, she is still pure gold and thinking of others. She invited her husband's children to a birthday celebration. Her husband has dementia and it is getting much worse, but she wanted them to be a part of his birthday celebration, so she went shopping at Costco to buy food for the party. It was a challenge for her to push the large cart by herself, but she did it, in preparation for the surprise birthday party for her husband. She was excited.
"Janet," I said, "You are so thoughtful and good."
Then she said something that just thrilled me to the tip of my toes;
it's a powerful mantra:
"IT'S FUN TO BE MAKE PEOPLE HAPPY!"
What a true statement. Making others happy certainly doesn't lessen our own happiness; it multiplies it.
Oh, Janet, you inspire me. And, I always love talking with you!
Thank you for being my friend.
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Out of curiosity, did she have a tumor on the parotid gland in her neck? I wonder, as I had the same thing back in 2006. Mine was the size of a golf ball and happily was benign. Hope she heals nicely and considers it a memory real soon. Sounds like she has a wonderful attitude about life and love!
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